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How Can I Get My Girlfriend Back - How To Win Your Ex Back With This Principle
How can I get my girlfriend back if she started to ignore me?
So, your ex ignores you and you are now starting to become worried. Well, you don’t have to. I understand it is not easy not to worry, but worrying about it is not going to help you get your girlfriend back.
Perhaps, understanding this principle will help you in getting your girlfriend back.
People want what they cannot have. I believe you probably heard of it somewhere. The fact is, if you desire something but can’t have it easily, you will start to desire it even more. One very good example is money.
Yet, when you can have something easily, your desire will start to dwindle. This principle also applies to your relationship. In fact, if you think about it, you will realize that this principle is also applicable to many other areas of your life.
What you want to do now is to understand this principle and use it to your advantage. You don’t want to do things that makes your girlfriend think she can get you back easily.
Things like begging her to come back, telling her how much you miss her, checking on her too often etc.
In fact, you want to do the opposites. You must let her know that you are living very well even without her. I know you may not really feel that way but you will have to project this kind of image to her. You must let her know that you are not someone she can easily get and it will increase her desire to want you more.
Do not underestimate this principle. When you apply it to your daily life, you will start to realize how powerful this principle is.
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Should i trust her? (view the story)?
Me and my girlfriend (we are both 18) have been going out for 1 year and 5 months and in our relationship trust is one of the most important values in my eyes. Basically i have adopted a principle of being open with one another - a ‘no secrets’ principle.
My girlfriend used to swim and today I only found out by someone else mentioning it that she got temporarily banned from swimming for kissing a boy in the changing room. This is not the first time my girlfriend has held information back from me and it makes me wonder what other types of secrets have occurred/are occuring….
She says she didn’t tell me because she has changed from how she was then but naturally i am thinking to the future and wonder if secrets like this will have wider implications on our relationship for the long-term? What are your thoughts?
After all I have talked to her about swimming a lot so there has been ample opportunity to mention it. I just feel like someone else is having to say certain things before i get told all these secrets and you know i have stressed the importance of being open with one another and it isn’t the first time a secret like this has come out. Its like everytime i am confident i know everything about her something reappears.
She dumped me for someone else when i was on holiday right at the start of our relationship and since then honesty has been crucial to me especially since we are going to separate universities next year (within 2 hours of one another)
Does this secret have wider implications for our relationship?
Should i move on???
Sounds like a liar to me, Move on if you want, if not try not to get too attatched to her because you could get hurt in the future.
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I think you may just have to move on. I wouldn’t want to face being heartbroken again. That would just bring you ridicule and discomfort.
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I think you may be asking too much of this girl. You are telling her that you have to be open, but maybe she is afraid to hurt you and feels that holding back would be the best thing.
It seems that you may want more than she can handle. I think the best thing to do would to just take things one day at a time. You never know what will happen in the future, especially if she’s kissing boys in the locker room already. What do you think she’ll do when she is 2 hours away from you?
I think the best bet would be to just move on.
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She kissed the boy when you were going out? If so then dump her obviously.
If it was before you were going out then it could just mean she’s embarrassed by the situation. It also means that this was a very long message for a very small thing, which means you need to chill out and not put so much importance onto little things. And it means that you’re not emotionally ready for a full commitment relationship as they are never as cut and dried as you want/need them to be.
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to be honest if i was u i’d prob try and get over her…i mean u seem like a nice genuine guy, with good ideals for a relationship, trust, honesty and maturity..whereas ur girlfriend doesn’t seem as commited to it as u are, i mean 17months is a long relationship in my eyes and if it was that easy for her to dump u straight after u went on hols, she is not as serious or commited to this us u are..
And the fact that she has cheated on u, and not told u about it she really must not care about u or the relationship..if u can see urself being able to forgive her then there maybe a chance for you 2 start over with a clean slate, but as for the secrecy and the lies do u think she will be able to change?as they say a leopard never changes their spots..saying that i dont know what kind of a girl she is really, only u can make that decision at the end of the day…i say either sit down and have a serious chat and see if she is on the same wavelength as u..and if not just try forget about her and the last year and a half of ur life, i know it will be tough but at the end of the day you are still very young and i’m sure u will have no problem finding someone else who will appreciate u more =D best of luck x
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she isn’t worth you at all. she is so irresponsible of herself and so disrespectful. You are better of with someone else someone that respect and doesn’t lie behind your back. Yes you should move on who knows what she might be doing to you next I know you are going to suffer the fact that she had gone and all that but at least you would feel much happier at the end that you did so. I believe there is someone for everyone and you just need to choose the right/ true one.
God Bless and good luck!
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you are both young. once you both go to college your mentallity will change, if you are not ready to move on don’t. You have stressed it enough to her how important trust is and holding things back after you’ve asked her to be honest with you shows she has issues being opened and is probably scared about your reaction and maybe wants to avoid momentary problems. The fact of the matter she is not understanding that by keeping things from you is only making you doubt. Give things sometime again you both are still young and going away to college and sociallize with different people will make things either stronger or you will come to make a decision on your own. Good luck follow your heart but always think about your happiness.
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